Believe Yourself.

If someone’s belief’s and confidence are strong enough, they can achieve something that is very difficult we just need to see with eyes of faith instead of eyes of fear.

Most of the time we blame others for not trusting in us or not supporting us. What I believe is rather than expecting the acceptance from others, we must accept ourself first. Then only we can make progress and be a self-confident person.

“ If we don’t believe in ourself why anybody else going to believe in us ? “

If we demoralise ourself then everybody around us is going to do the same. So rather than blaming others to draw us back, we must take it on ourself… We must prove ourself that we are not a penny less than anybody else. The day we get that feeling we start to believe in ourself.

It doesn’t matter whether they believe or not; all that matters is whether we believe in ourself.

There are times when people disappoint us and let us down. That’s when we have to tell ourself that things will get better.

But those are the times when we must remind ourself to trust our own judgments and opinions, to keep our life focused on believing in self.

There may be days when we get up in the morning and things aren’t the way we had hoped they would be.

That’s when we have to tell ourself that things will get better. There are times when people disappoint us and let us down.

But those are the times when we must remind ourself to trust our own judgments and opinions, to keep our life focused on believing in ourself.

There will be challenges to face and changes to make in our life, and it is up to us to accept them.

So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe and all you want your life to be.

Because the challenges and changes will only help us to find the goals that we know are meant to come true for us.

Obsession Or Love

“If being in love means being in constant pain, you are confusing love with obsession. If being in love means living in constant fear of him cheating, you are confusing love with obsession. And if being in love means becoming isolated from your friends and family members because you are consumed him, you are definitely confusing love with obsession”

“Obsession is when where you become obsessed with one person you think you may be in love with. You might feel the need to protect your loved one obsessively, or even become controlling of them as if they were a possession.”

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Get Out Of Your Rut Once In A Month.

Self- care is essential for happiness. But do we take the time to think about what self-care actually means for each of us? Exercise, sure. Eating well, yes. Then, of course, there’s hydrating, sleeping sufficiently, meditating and doing whatever other relaxation rituals work for you.

But its also essential to make time to simply be “with yourself,” to give yourself love, without it necessarily being time at the gym or sleeping in bed. Let’s call this “me time,” time to just be, recharge and reset.

Being busy every single day is very popular these days, which is why so many people suffer from serious diseases. Your body and your mind need some rest.

At least once a month forget about your tasks, projects, household chores, TV shows, social media and phone.

Take a small trip to a less crowded place, where you’ll have an opportunity to spend some me time.

If you live alone and you know no one will disturb you today, then relax at home. But again, switch off your laptop, phone and TV.

Don’t Control…. Just Let Go 🙂

We want to control every aspect of our lives. So we grab onto our goals, relationships and work so tightly until we suffocate and kill them eventually.

When we try to control someone or something, realize that we are actually wanting to be controlled by that person or thing. Since our freedom depends on the person or thing we want to control, the person or thing gets to decide how we feel. So aren’t we being a victim and being controlled by the person or thing?

Lets take parenting as example:

As a parent, we might set rules and regulations for your children. When our children disobey us, how do we feel? Don’t we get angry, disappointed or upset? Even though we seem to be the one in control, we are actually the one being controlled by our children. Their behaviors determine our mood.

So how could we havefreedom, when we keep wanting to control everything.

Mostly we control because of fear.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid that our friends and family would change.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid of the unknown and uncertainties.

▪ Sometimes we act out of jealousy, insecurities and lack of trust.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid that our beliefs get threatened.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid of making mistakes and looking bad in front of others.

I realised that the more we want to control, the less control and freedom we have. Mostly we are afraid that once we let go, we lose control. However, that isn’t true.

Letting go of control is letting go of the feelings and illusions that we are out of control.

If we have been trying to control every aspects of our life, it’s difficult to let go all at once. Instead, we should let go of one thing at a time. Start with the small things first.

Overplanning is a form of trying to control everything. We want everything to be perfect and go according to plan. But we didn’t leave any room for mistakes, surprises or unpredictable events. Then, we wonder why i never achieve what i want.

Now, I’ve learned to include space in my daily schedule and to plan loose. If I think I can finish a task within an hour, I usually plan for two hours.

Have a plan, but don’t map out everything. Leave a little room for fun and spontaneity.

Expectation is a strong belief that something will happen in the future. It’s nothing but a belief and all beliefs are limiting in nature. The more expectations we have, the more control we require to keep your expectations met.

So Don’t Control, Just Let Go 🙂

Thanks For Reading 🙂

The Sunshine Blogger Award 😍😍

Yippeee 👻👻 for the first time i am nominated for The Sunshine Blogger Award 😍 i wanna Thanks Mistella25 for nominating me for this beautiful award! I am so grateful to you …. ❤️

The Rules:

*Thank the blogger who has nominated you and link it’s blog in your post.

*Answer the 11 questions asked by the blogger.

*Nominate 11-8 more blogs and write them 11 new questions.

*List the rules and the logo of award on your post or in blog.

Here, are the answers to your questions:-
Before starting, I must say that I liked your questions . Good 👍

1.) What according to you, is the best brunch you’ld love to have?

Answer: it would be italian food 😍

2.) Which was your best day of 2017?

Answer: best day of 2017 is when i got my masters degree and that too with good percentage 👻 and finally i am done with studies 😅😅

3.) Who would you prefer: a singer or a writer as your better half?

Answer: hahaha i will prefer a person who can write and sing both… so that he will write and sing songs for me 😍😍

4.) Which is the best book you have ever read?

The best book I have read is Wings Of Fire by Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam….. its his biograhpy …. this book is the true inspirational story.

5.) If you were given a chance to meet your president, what would you like to say?

Answer: Indian constitution provides reservation for the SC/ST and the backward castes in every field …. studies, jobs etc Why ??? Do they have less mind than other castes ….

6.) What do you think about the life of a scientist?

Answer: i would love to be a scientist and do research on diseases that are still non curable …. and to do research on no calories tasty foods … i love eating but because of weight management i have to control 🙈🙈 my eating habits

7.) Which language do you prefer while talking: English or your mother language?

Answer: Obviously Mother Language ❤️ HINDI

8). What is your opinion about politics and politicians across the globe?

Answer: i like politics and really adore the great politicians who helped our country to grow 🙂

9.) What would you like to do between boating and bungee jumping?

Answer: Bungee Jumping … because i like heights and it will be adventrous 😍 i always want to try adventrous tough and unique things 😃

10.) Do you think feelings lessened with distance?

Answer: No it won’t ….. if you have true feelings for someone then distance means nothing to you and your feelings 😃

11.) If you fail to succeed in any field or competition, whom would you blame?

Answer: No one … if i blame anyone or even myself for my failure then i keep on thinkin about it and it always be in my mind … i just take that failure as a lesson and try to find out the reasons why i fail …. and in next attempt will not repeat the same mistake and be more careful about everything 😊

Here are great bloggers that I am nominating for the Sunshine blogger award:

Apple Rae

In a love world

Grace Life

Brain freeze

Abhishek

Wael

RekhaSahay

Nathi

You all the great bloggers ❤️ here are the questions that I would like you guys to answer:

1. How significant is your WordPressblog for you?

2. Which is your favorite TV series?

3. What is that one quality that sets you apart from others?

4. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would that be?

5. Describe an ideal date.

6. Which social media platform do you loathe and why?

7. How different would your world be if your smartphone was taken away from you?

8. What if your birthday was taken off the calendar (as in the day never came that year)?

9. Which social cause would you fight for?

10. What is it that you look for in the opposite gender?

11. Which is your favorite time oftheday?

😊😊

Don’t Let Anyone Take You For Granted.

Many a times our loved ones start taking us for granted because we are too nice to them and never refuse anything they want.

They know we won’t mind everytime they make a mistake. We’ll forgive them just being modest. They know we need them in our life more than they want in theirs.

They know we love them and will never leave them no matter what.

We don’t take much time to forgive, and they keep on hurting us and taking us for granted. Just because we enable them to.

We love them unconditionally, but its not a way to be loved and respected.

Being taken for granted all the time, we lose our self respect.

The more chances you give someone the less respect they’ll start to have for you. They’ll begin to ignore the standards that you’ve set because they know another chance will always be given.

They’re not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what you won’t walk away.

Forgive yourself for tolerating this nonsense and start to value your worth.

You tolerate what you allow. What you allow will continue to.

Never let a person comfortable disrespecting you.

Romantic Song Lyrics That Will Make You Believe In Love Again.

1. “And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for awhile, cause you’re amazing, just the way you are.” ~Bruno Mars (Just The Way You Are)

2. “Cause all of me loves all of you. Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.” ~John Legend (All Of Me)

3. “Baby, you’re all that I want when you’re lying here in my arms, I’m finding it hard to believe we’re in heaven.” ~Bryan Adams (Heaven)

4. “I may be crazy, don’t mind me, Say, boy, let’s not talk too much, Grab on my waist and put that body on me, Come on now, follow my lead, Come, come on now, follow my lead.” ~ Ed Sheeran (Shape Of You)

5. “So, baby, pull me closer, In the back seat of your Rover, That I know you can’t afford, Bite that tattoo on your shoulder.” ~ The Chainsmokers (Closer)

6. “Every moment that I spend with you, We were sat upon our best friend’s roof, I had both of my arms round you, Watching the sunrise replace the moon.” ~ Ed Sheeran (How Would You Feel)

7. ” I don’t wanna live forever, ’cause I know I’ll be living in vain, And I don’t wanna fit wherever, I just wanna keep calling your name until you come back home.” ~ Taylor Swift, Zayn Malik (I Don’t Wanna Live Forever)

Never Give Up… !!

When a person loses hope, they lose their purpose in life and stop living a fulfilling life. Having a bad day isn’t the end of the world. Making a mistake isn’t a reason to give up. Stay strong and you will never lose your hope

Perfection doesn’t exist. Your life will never be perfect no matter how hard you try. Your life can be happy, miserable or boring, but not perfect.

If you choose to live a happy life, hope will always be with you. Learn how to turn your failures and disappointment into success, cultivate positive thinking, and try to surround yourself with positive people only.

Life without a plan is a hopeless life. You probably have many goals and dreams, but do you have an actual plan? Do you know what you should do each day to reach your goals? Your plan inspires you to work hard and never give up. It makes you more ambitious and assertive. It shows you the right direction and helps you be successful. If you don’t have a plan yet, today is a good day to make it.

Hope is not about who is strong and who is weak – it’s easy to lose it without noticing it. Hope can either enable you to step forward or give up on your dreams. Sometimes we feel like there’s no way out but hope is always here regardless of the situation.

Winners Never Quit, One Who Quit Never Wins 😊

Never Lose hope And Never Give Up 🙂

Thanks For Reading 🙂

Don’t Let The Child Inside You Die …!!

There is a child inside each one of us, who comes out infront of the person we are most comfortable with…

Just because we grow up doesn’t mean we have to lose our inner child.

Embracing your inner child will make you a better — and much happier — adult.

The older you get, the more responsibilities you have. It’s almost as if even the simplest of things, like having a place to sleep and food to eat, all of a sudden becomes a project.

Most people spend the majority of their adult lives working only to survive….

Even those who aren’t so much struggling to survive are likely struggling to get ahead, struggling to accomplish goals and make progress.

The older we get, the more we want and the more of what we want becomes increasingly more difficult to get.

But does it have to be this way?

Is there no way for us to take a step back and revert to olden days when cartoons and bowls of cereal felt like living the dream?

It’s important to set goals for yourself, to reach for your dreams and reach to create a better life for yourself.

But you used to be so much happier… what happened? When did you make the switch and cross over to the darker side?

You need to figure out a way to embrace that inner child of yours because failing to do so is failing to realize you already know how to appreciate life the way it ought to be appreciated — or at least, you once knew.

Embrace your inner child and make life, once again, your playground.

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