I realised that the more we want to control, the less control and freedom we have.
Mostly we are afraid that once we let go, we lose control. However, that isn’t true.
Mostly we control because of fear.
▪ Sometimes we are afraid that our beliefs get threatened.
▪ Sometimes we act out of jealousy, insecurities and lack of trust.
▪ Sometimes we are afraid that our friends and family would change.
▪ Sometimes we are afraid of making mistakes and looking bad in front of others.
▪ Sometimes we are afraid of the unknown and uncertainties.
When we try to control someone or something, we realize that we are actually wanting to be controlled by that person or thing. Since our freedom depends on the person or thing we want to control, the person or thing gets to decide how we feel.
Letting go of control is letting go of the feelings and illusions that we are out of control.
So Don’t Control 😊
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Rêveuse
This is so true
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Wise words 👍
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Welcome ❤️
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Most of the things we fear sometimes never happen. I agree with letting go. We don’t need to beat ourselves up… We should take life one step at a time. Inspiring post my friend.
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My pleasure
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Rightly said
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Well said!!!
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U r welcome:)
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That’s ever so true, thak you
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absolutely right 😇
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nicely said.
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Good one. Letting go is liberating. Isnt it?
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Controlling others is not healthy & the more we try controlling those around us, we start losing our importance in their lives….. Great post dear
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Exactly 😊💐 thanks
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Yeah. That is how the damn thing works
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Haha! Not too hard huh?! 😊
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Yeah.
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So true👏
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Great wisdom in your words. 🙂
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Thanku 😊
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So true, being under one’s control is almost the same as living in suffocation.
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Well said, thanks for sharing… 🙂
“Laugh when you can, apologize when you should and let go of what you cannot change” Noel Letty
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Yes 😊🌷 thanks
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Yes that’s it. Just let go and be relaxed 😊. Great post Mahee 😇✨
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Thanku Abhijith 😊💐
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If we control too much our relationship gets difficult..but if we are not in control it gets complicated too… awesome lines
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Thanku 😊💐
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I started working Upon this few months ago.. and believe me life had changed for Good 💜💜😍
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Nice 😊 thanks for reading
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I Hope you acknowledge that you are creating change in the blogging world 💜
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Thanku so much for appreciating me 😊💐 it really means alot 🌷
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I said you the Truth ! 💜
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agree to the very core Mahee, great work 🙂
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So true! Great post Mahee! 😊
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Thanku Kranti 😊
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Beautifully written! I can say that I have been working on letting things go more! I have done rather well in some aspects and failed miserably in others, but I will not give up!
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Thanku dear 😊🌸
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The pleasure is all mine!
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So true!
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Don’t control, just be. Nicely said!
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I agree with letting go. Things will happen in their own way. Very wise words.
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We always project who we are…and our fears are the driver. Understand our fears and the Learner permits come off our license and we are free to roam at will. The ‘let go’ is beautiful 😀
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Thanku 😊
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Agreed I learned that but occasionally I fall
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True, fear is the culprit of many things. If we could only learn to let go. 😊🙏🏽
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Thanks dear … 😊💐 i appreciate you always taking the time to read 😊🌺 it means alot
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Your post are always phenomenal Mahee 😊🙏🏽
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❤️🌸 thanku again 😀😛
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You’re welcome 😊
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So true. I even tried that before. Sometimes i still feel controlled by others who i want to control myself. Great post !
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Sometimes it happen with me also … 😊 thanks 🌸
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This is soo true. Very beautifully written 😊
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Thanku 😊💐
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Yesss! I absolutely love and agree with this 💕
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absolutely rightttt👍👍
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I liked the central theme and compliments to you for an excellent composition as ALWAYS ! Regards. Jay
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Thanku Jay 😊🌸
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Positive vibes as always..beautiful wise words Mahee📝✌😇💐
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Thanku Prashantt 😊💐
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Control comes with need and everyone wants to be or feel needed. It’s that want factor, and it comes with the thing people crave and that’s attention. Letting go of the ego is the first step in heeding control and gaining self freedom. Wonderful post beautiful🌹🌹
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Thanks alot Roy 😊🌸
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Very welcome🌹🌹
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So true…and the more we control the more is the tendency of the thing being controlled to break away!! Letting go and then pulling strings if needed is what works….
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Been trying to do this for years – hope that one day I’ll succeed. Great post :O)
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Thanku dear 😊🌸
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Wow I must be saying to a magnificent woman… very realistic and human beings as me… lots of contradictions , that’s my attagirl! Congrats
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Thanku dear 😊🌺
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A pleasure sorry I don’t know your name. Excellent entries… 👍👍👍😘😘😘😉😉😉 David
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I am Mahee 😊
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Lovely name and a pleasure Mahee 👍👍👍👍🙈🙈🙈😘😘😘
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Mahee meaning wisdom… I understand great entries 😉😉😉😉
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A nomination to Liebster Award , congrats!
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Thanku so much for the nomination 😊🌸
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One cannot control life anymore than one can control the winds…. 🙂
“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were.” Richard Bach
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Well said thanks for sharing 😊
You always share great thoughts 😊
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Easier said that done for control freaks like me.😉
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Agreed 💯
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Powerful ! We want to control out of fear ! Profound ! Glory to God , Jesus and the Holy Spirit for taking over and using us however He MAY!
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Thanks 💛
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OH goodness, yes. Wish I knew it much earlier
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I just started reading your posts and seems like your posts are inclined towards embracing postiviity and love in life. You write with a clarity of thoughts which is a rare trait these days. Keep writing Maahi.
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Thanku so much ❤️ You are very kind and 😊 your words means so much … and i feel same for you … loved your writing … so inspiring and beautiful ❤️
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Thanks Mahi and you have chosen a apt title for your blog.Very creative.
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Thanks again buddy 🌹❤️
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I love the truth in this! Sometimes our need for control displays more insecurities than confidence, so its better to just let go and let be. Great post!
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Thanku dear 😊💐
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Thanks for your like of the CNN interview with Hillary Clinton; you are very kind. Also, Your new gravatar pic is very good. Please keep up the good work that you do with your blog. May Christ, our Lord, richly bless you.
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Most welcome 😊 💛
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Many blessings to you.
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Thanks for your kind words … it means alot
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Always
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So true! We have to let go! Enjoyed your post! 💙
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Thanku dear 😊🌺
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I think some people are born to control and don’t know they’re doing it.
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Yeah true 🌸
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