Let go..

I realised that the more we want to control, the less control and freedom we have.

Mostly we are afraid that once we let go, we lose control. However, that isn’t true.

Mostly we control because of fear.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid that our beliefs get threatened.

▪ Sometimes we act out of jealousy, insecurities and lack of trust.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid that our friends and family would change.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid of making mistakes and looking bad in front of others.

▪ Sometimes we are afraid of the unknown and uncertainties.

When we try to control someone or something, we realize that we are actually wanting to be controlled by that person or thing. Since our freedom depends on the person or thing we want to control, the person or thing gets to decide how we feel.

Letting go of control is letting go of the feelings and illusions that we are out of control.

So Don’t Control 😊

Thanks For Reading

Rêveuse

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127 thoughts on “Let go..

  1. Jokerswild says:

    Control comes with need and everyone wants to be or feel needed. It’s that want factor, and it comes with the thing people crave and that’s attention. Letting go of the ego is the first step in heeding control and gaining self freedom. Wonderful post beautiful🌹🌹

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  2. DutchIl says:

    One cannot control life anymore than one can control the winds…. 🙂

    “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were.” Richard Bach

    Liked by 3 people

  3. Equipping says:

    Thanks for your like of the CNN interview with Hillary Clinton; you are very kind. Also, Your new gravatar pic is very good. Please keep up the good work that you do with your blog. May Christ, our Lord, richly bless you.

    Liked by 2 people

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